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quoting Jenny:
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shit talkers, gossipers, and those with no lives...
why do people talk shit and gossip? becuz they have no lives and have nothing better to do than talk about other people who do have lives. but honestly people what do you get from talking about other people? it doesn't better yourself nor does it make you a better person, so why not pick up a hobby this way you're at least gaining something. to make matters even worse or the situation even more pathetic, the dumb fucks who talk shit, talk about people who are the equivalent of strangers to them. the people they talk about aren't those who are friends or people that they know on a personal level, they talk about people who are acquaintances or those who can just as well be considered as strangers... what's the fuckin use?!?!?!?!?! its not like you're learning new information about a close friend that concerns you, that would be more understandable. what you're doing is the equivalent of talking about a stranger. what's more is that yo! u're discussing unverified information, in translation HOW THE FUCK DO YOU KNOW IF ITS THE FUCKIN TRUTH OR NOT? thus in conclusion, the next time you "hear" something, unless its from that person's mouth, don't take it as the truth.
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I don't necessarily adhere to the profanity, but really--what do you get out of it? Do you honestly have nothing better to do? It's summer time; don't waste it stalking and talking about people you don't know. Do you feel better about yourself? I guess that's alright, since apparently self esteem, paranoia, and jealousy are incredibly prevalent issues in all y'alls' lives. I'm sure others' lives are intriguing and such, but there comes a time when you have to take your own advice and ease the hypocrisy a little bit. Inexperienced people shouldn't talk, particularly if they don't make sense. But at the least, know what you're talking about before you branch off and create imaginary scenes in your mind and talk about it like it's the truth. All for the sake of drama? Playing things up to create something outrageous and scandalous that inevitably hurt your friends (rather, best friends?) is incredibly counterproductive, contrary to your belief that it's supposed truth. I guess it must be 'right' to tell the whole world about things that you're not even involved in, implicate the worst, and hurt your best friends in the process. Defending yourself means you have something to feel guilty about, to feel wrong about doing; of course, taking something and turning it into something degenerate would tend to do that to you.
On another note, you don't find too many truly close friends who you can count on and trust through anything; who don't have their own agendas; who take you for who you are and try to help you or better your situation rather than exacerbate it; who aren't superficial (in the friend-sense) and greedy; who don't use you or expect you to do anything for them, even though you really would do anything; who understand you and give you patience; who you can not talk to for a long time and never be strangers; who you really connect with; who you really love. I feel so lucky to have had and have you guys in my life: you know who you are and I know you don't need the recognition.
?picturas? ?fotos? I will put some up before the end of summer. |
